Small Teen Turns Eighteen – Review

[ Before people start commenting - please be aware that I am neither Jasmine or Bev Burkitt.  Their official website can be found over here ]

I’ve taken straight to the computer after watching the next instalment of Jasmine Burkitt in Small Teen Turns Eighteen on BBC Three.   The difficulties in getting clothes and shoes to fit I could totally empathise with, however it was Jasmine and her Dad’s relationship, or her Dad’s relationship with drugs, that I had the most difficultly.

Why?

Drugs, or the treatment and support of addicts is such a divisive subject.  I found myself equally frustrated with not only her Dad’s attitude and helplessness with drugs, but also Jasmine’s honest opinion in not feeling able to support her father through the detox process.  I wonder, how many of us would really know how we would react in such circumstances?  I have no idea how I would cope in that situation being a 17/18 years old, especially when the world is so very black and white at that age. One hopes that Jazz’s experiences provides some comfort to those going through the same situation.  The documentary showed a balanced view of dealing with the horrible effects drugs has on peoples’ lives, that none of us have the correct answer to such an illness that doesn’t discriminate who it effects.

The documentary made me feel quite sad. It was honest, at times raw and challenging, with poignant touches of humour with Jasmine’s family and friends, though ultimately wonderful to see Jasmine grow into a confident, young woman.

What did you think?

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BBC Three – Small Teen Turns Eighteen

Ooooh exciting news ladies and gentlemen, book some time in front of your TV this coming Monday 7th May as Jasmine and her Mum, Bev, return to our screens with ‘Small Teen Turns Eighteen’ on BBC Three at 9.00pm.

The documentary follows Jazz planning that all important 18th birthday party and keeping us up-to-date with her family life.  So looking forward to watching this :)

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Now You’re Pregnant You Won’t Need To Get Your Trousers Shortened – Right?

‘…er no’ was my reply to a colleague.  I have a metaphorical head smacks the desk moment. Moving the conversation on (with raised eyebrows)….

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Florida Dwarf Tossing Legislation – Update

Looks like common-sense has prevailed and the legislation has been revoked.  Yippie-do!  One for the greater good.  Here’s the Little People of America’s statement on the matter (on Facebook).  Such legislation protects and goes to offer dwarves, like myself, protection from the idiots who use our disability for their own humorous ends.

Good work LPA!

Read my previous article on the matter: Florida Representative Wants To Repeal Dwarf Tossing Legislation – WTF?

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Goodness – How Did This Conversation Make It Onto TV?

I’ve been so mad about the chat between Rosie O’Donnell and Chelsea Handler (who?) that I’ve had to take a while to think of a response… it’s still making my blood boil.

Well, how to go about reinforcing stereotypes and prejudices surrounding people with dwarfism in one conversation hey?! … actually watch this and find out…

My head literally slumped onto my laptop keyword the day it came through my Facebook stream.  It’s got every ignorance about dwarfism that I am faced with on a daily basis.  The fact that we were objectified by the two women was upsetting, but that they spoke about how an average height person having relationship with a dwarf is somehow akin to child abuse was jaw-droppingly ignorant and does a huge amount of disservice to many average height/dwarf person relationships.   Such comments are downright offensive and upsetting, especially as a person being married to an average height person. Why should we have to justify our relationship to anyone? Let alone being put in this position by these two women? Which is what the repercussions are likely to be when you come across someone as equally ignorant on dwarfism who, because someone with a high profile as Rosie O’Donnell has normalised such views! Get it?  Don’t these two women realise that saying such comments make it that much harder for us people with dwarfism to be accepted in the wider society as the people, not the height, we are?

What makes it even more infuriating is, would this conversation have been aired if it was about a person of a different colour or ethnicity?  No. They’d have been hell on and each woman’s career would flatline.   Disgraceful. Downright disgraceful.

I love this response to such ignorance by Chris Errera.  It’s certainly kinder and more humorous than what I would really like to say, as yes, my blood is still boiling!

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The Guardian – Let’s Talk About Disability Series



Talking About Disability

The wonderful and frank ‘Talking about disability’ series on The Guardian website.  Disability campaigner Nicola Clark chats with Warwick Davis, Baroness Tanni Gray-Thompson and Sally Bercow about their experiences of disability.

From the dwarf perspective, I love Warwick’s recounting his P.E. frustrations at school, something I gladly left behind at a young age.  Another spot on point was about being more able to problem solve within the environment we have to navigate through and that dwarfism isn’t just about being short, but the whole raft of difficulties – medical and otherwise we face.  I have to agree with Nicola’s comment further down the page, that Life’s Too Short was actually ahead of its time, even if some of it was excruciating to watch as a fellow dwarf.

I found Jo Whiley’s video especially poignant and shows another side to the DJ, with Sally Bercow’s being spot on with how us disabled and our carers are currently being treated by this particular government.

Just wish there was more of this type of fair representation in the mainstream tabloids about what disability is really like, rather than whipping the public into a frenzy by focusing on those apparently claiming disability benefits fraudulently.

Watch the videos »

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If You Read One Blog This Month – Check Out Kiruna Stamell’s

For all fans of Kiruna Stamell, check out her self-entitled blog/official website.  I first saw Kiruna in Graeae Theatre Company’s production of ‘Whiter Than Snow‘ as it toured the country a few years ago.

Kiruna is an actress who originates from Australia and has worked extensively in theatre, is known for her roles in Channel 4′s ‘Cast-Offs’ and more recently, as Warwick Davis’ love interest in BBC 2′s ‘Life’s Too Short’.

The actress has also been branching out into stand-up comedy with her own show in Adelaide entitled ‘Why Dwarves Hate Christmas’ at the end of February, beginning of March.  Good luck with that, would love to see it.

Any how, check out Kiruna’s superb blog »

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Life’s Too Short – A Social Reflection Of The Dwarf Community And Representation In The Media

Goodness where has the time gone and it’s February already!  I know I’m a little late in the write-up for the remaining Life’s Too Short episodes, but the series has provided me with some food for thought since finishing.

Generally speaking it’s seems the sitcom limped to the end and the response from the public and the dwarf community wasn’t that great or well-received, depending on which side of the fence you sit. However, I think a show that can simultaneously make you cringe, laugh out loud and make you want to shout at the TV deserves a little more recognition.

What?!? I hear some of my dwarf and disabled readers say.

Hear me out.

For me Life’s Too Short was an almost near representation of all the aspects of the dwarf community that I have come across.   You’ve got your vile, big-mouthed characters chip-on-their shoulder individuals, the quiet but effective communication of the underlying cause of the Short Statured Society in highlighting the inequalities that people with dwarfism face, the day-to-day difficulties we face with our surroundings and people we encounter and how frustrating that can be.

At the time I hung my head for the first few episodes in abject disappointment; appalled that all stereotypes were reinforced and was actually scared at one point for the repercussions we would face in the street if some clever-arse thought it would be funny to place a dwarf in a toilet or be left in a bin because “…Johnny Depp and Helena Bonham-Carter’s characters thought it was ok”… hmmm.

Comedy is cruel.    To my mind there is two types of comedy, one that mocks people because of who they are and there’s situational comedy.  I personally prefer the latter and the former doesn’t sit well with me.  I do wonder if such sketches would have made it through BBC’s editorial guidelines had this been a comedy poking fun at someone because of the colour of their skin or if it was because they were being treated/displayed in such a way if the character was in a wheelchair, deaf or blind?

That said, if there had been no The Office, if Ricky Gervais wasn’t so central to the premise and promotion of the show, could this sitcom have been an apt social commentary and brief insight into, not only what it is like living as a dwarf in society and the challenges and ignorances we face, but also the first comedy for us dwarves to be actually, freely to be able to laugh at ourselves?   To relate and laugh at the absurdity in the situations faced by Warwick’s character that mirror our own experiences in life? And that was the gem of Life’s Too Short for me. To be able to laugh along with the side-stares at the camera when Warwick looks as if to say ‘…what did this idiot just say/do?!?”  as I have done so many times I’ve lost count.   The last half of the series was much stronger than the first.

The best characters were definitely Warwick and the lovely Kiruna Stamell, who played potential love-interest Amy.  While Warwick’s character was mostly vile (and would be considered so regardless of his height), it was heartening to watch the relationship build and fall with Amy who wouldn’t tolerate Warwick’s behaviour.

My only request for any other production companies looking to commission other dwarf series – please can we have a dwarf comedy that doesn’t have such a ‘little man syndrome’ character and normie actors who aren’t so quick to reinforce stereotypical behaviour towards us dwarves. Yes, I’m talking about you Johnny Depp.

On a superficial level, this sitcom still portrays the dwarf as the butt of the joke, but thankfully it showed the lack of height with being human.  That a dwarf can be just as fallible as an average-height person.  That not all dwarves have the same intentions as one or two self-centred personalities, even if we all need ‘big’ personalities to get noticed in this life. Life’s Too Short gave its audience the ability to see the human side of dwarfism – which isn’t that what all we dwarves’ ask for in this world?

Over to you…

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Little Lady Update

For those regular readers who’ve been wondering if I’ve dropped off the edge of the world, fear not, there’s been some rather exciting news in Little Lady’s world and life has thrown somewhat of a curve-ball.  A major part of my particular dwarfism is a lack of stamina and an overall prevailing of tiredness which means that I can only dedicate myself to one or two main things in life at any one time before, metaphorically-speaking, the tank is empty. Sadly this has meant that this blog has suffered as a consequence. Alas, I’m back on more of an even keel, so hopefully will be posting my little life musings more often.

While, I’ve been away I have been keeping a breadth of the goings on the dwarf community and the larger disabled community.   I was very happy to hear actor Peter Dinklage winning  a Golden Globe for Best Supporting Actor for his role in Games of Thrones. I have to confess to not watching this, but it’s on the list of things to-do this year.   I’ve been incredibly dismayed by the developments in the changes from Disability Living Allowance to Personal Independence Payments which are currently being ping-ponged back and forwards between the Commons and the Lords, more of which I’ll be talking about in future posts.  There’s also my final review of the Warwick Davis and Ricky Gervais’ sitcom – ‘Life’s Too Short’.

So what’s been the curve-ball?  Well, this might actually reveal my identity to those who know me, but, well, er, Little Lady has a little bump :)

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Happy Holidays!

I would like to wish all my readers and supporters over the last year or so of Hello Little Lady blog a very Happy Festive season!

I hope you all have a wonderful time and wish you all the best for 2012.

Keep reading!

Little Lady x

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